"Hey there Margie, here are my reasons for doing the pole! You always need something new to bring into your relationship to help spice things up or else things can get a bit dull and boring after a while, especially if you have been married for a while! I really enjoy dressing up in sexy clothes or lingerie putting on some music and strutting my stuff for my man. If you haven't got a pole in the house just use your man and dance around him, hold onto him and use him as the pole! It keeps you feeling young, sexy, fit and confident, great for the self esteem, especially for women in their 40's, its an escape from the role of being a mum and housewife!
And it keeps your man interested!!" Daniela 46 yrs old.